DEAR INDIAN PARENTS

Hi,
Hello,
Pranaam!

I cannot understand what a nut cracking job it is to be an Indian Parent and I think I never want to!
I cannot understand how pressurize you feel when you want a male child!
I cannot understand what it takes to sacrifice your own needs to fulfill your child's luxuries!
I cannot understand how do you manage all the expenses everyday, every month, every year!
I cannot understand what mental torture you go through when your child becomes adamant!
I cannot understand how guilty you feel when you can't fulfill your child's demand!
I cannot understand growing up a child in an extremely society-driven environment!
I cannot understand how do you get the courage to give birth to a female child in India!
I cannot understand how do you get the courage to kill a female child in the womb!
I cannot understand why do you follow the set rules to lead life here!
I cannot understand why do you force your child to follow the same rules!
I cannot understand how do you deal with your emotions for your girl child, by not expressing them?
I cannot understand how exactly your emotions pop out when the girl child marries and goes away?
I cannot understand your dual state of mind!
I cannot understand your stubborn principles!
I cannot understand how you attach education to a boy and marriage to a girl as a priority!
I cannot understand your insecurity when your girl child dates a boy!
I cannot understand your helplessness when your boy child dates a girl!
I cannot understand your fear that your child should not do anything out-of-the-box!
I cannot understand your constant thought for your child's betterment!
I cannot understand your constant thought for your child's betterment from your perspective!
I cannot understand your outrage for your child's behavior and habits!
I cannot understand the way you back your child in public and morally abuse in person!
I cannot understand how you distant away from your child in his/her teenage!
I cannot understand how you spoon feed your child when he/she finds a companion!
I cannot understand how can't you sense that your grown up child needs you still!
I cannot understand how you do behave so perfectly before the bride or groom's parents?!
I cannot understand why can't you give those smiles to your child everyday! atleast once! 
I cannot understand how do you still teach your child to be independent in this world!
I cannot understand how do you expect your child to be independent from a cage!
I cannot understand why are you scared to show your child all the possible ways!
I cannot understand why do you back your child half-heartedly in his/her chosen way!
I cannot understand the way you are unaware of the moral abuse you do to your child!
I cannot understand why do you feel small to learn from your little ones!
I cannot understand why don't you talk about it!
I cannot understand anything!
I just cannot understand!

I cannot try to get into your shoes, but
you have already tried mine!
You know they can cause blisters, body pain,
They can be too tight, too loose!
And there's a changing trend every time!
Let your child's dreams outgrow the shoes of your expectations!

Yours truly,
An Indian kid!