Anger

 Anger is one such feeling that has caused more destruction to mankind than any other. It has caused loss of time, loss of people, loss of efforts, loss of opportunity, loss of mental balance, loss of humanity!

Often I come across my own people, who have no control over their anger! They can't manage the strong feeling within and it comes out in almost any direction. Repercussions are borne by others and by themselves in a huge manner. I have also seen same people regretting in half an hour, getting back to normal like nothing happened. I have also witnessed same people shouting and howling at anyone coming their way. I have witnesses people hitting and apologizing like its so fixable.

Sometimes these are our own nearest and dearest people and however hard one tries, one cannot disconnect so easily with them. But people especially women have spent their lives dealing with this stress of not taking a step against these people thinking they are their own. People at the suffering end have paid and are paying huge prices for such angry birds. 

Kare koi aur, bhare koi aur! - is what the situation becomes. 

Why don't you uncage yourself from suffering this shit? Don't be helpless. The world has changed and it no more believes in the principle of ek maara toh dusra gaal aage karo! the one slapping is never going to stop, possibly you might get hurt big time in this process. Life is anyways too short to be at the suffering end. 

I have also seen people overcoming their anger in a very systematic manner and have come out as winners. One of the biggest examples would be our very own captain Virat Kohli. The way he was on and off field and the way he is now, one can just be proud of this man and the way he has uplifted himself, managing and directing his anger in the right direction. But these days, every random guy with a beard like him thinks he has seen the same struggle and has the same capabilities. Wake up man, the power is not in the beard! 

Last but not the least, once the damage is done, nothing can get back you the time, nothing can unhurt the minds you have knowingly or unknowingly hurt, nothing can do good to you, nothing will save you from the self-destruction, nothing will gain you respect from your own people.

Realize before its too late